Dating girls at work
And it is totally normal to throw caution to the wind.
And it is totally normal for people to tell you not to act on it.
At the time I thought that I was serious about her. Then she dumped me and we suddenly sat at other ends of the classroom. It was humiliating seeing them together, but I never made that same mistake again. If it makes you feel any better simply look at him and say "She's your headache now" and then move on.
And NEVER do what you did again unless you want to have a series of very short careers.
Shit I've worked with 3 of the five guys for over 2 years now. Most of corporate American does not want to hear about your personal problems. "Since then I've talked to my boss about transfering and have told both my ex girlfriend and my co worker who's office is right next to mine to fuck off and don't ever talk to me. You have to let it go, and not let it interfere with your work, or else find somewhere else to work. The good news is that after you get fired you are free to kick the shit out of the douche bag frat boy and let your ex know she is a cunt. 6 billion people in the world and you 3 want to play hide the sausage with co-workers in the same office?!?! So let me get this straight, You wouldn't let her move back in to your place, so she was still sort of digging you, right?
If you are going to "dip the pen in the company ink" you need to seperate work and love. Dated a bunch of people within the company and so did my wife. The "don't ever talk to me" crap among people who have to work together is pretty juvenile. I know it sucks but you are going to have to man up and deal with it. 6 billion people in the world and you 3 want to play hide the sausage with co-workers in the same office?!?! I'd play this card, call for a meeting for all 3 of you and play this card: Menage au Trois. If it doesn't and her new meathead says anything he is going to look like a douche, so again, you're welcome.